Pre-session digest
Ren Nakamura · 2:00 PM today
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Ren
EFT · session 5 · together 0 years
What changed between sessions
Ready to test the pattern out loud.
Ren connected anxious activation to assuming distance means rejection. The reflection prompt is in progress — he's noticing the pattern in real time.
Suggested focus for today
Trace one recent activation start to finish. Begin gently framing readiness for conjoint work.
Homework
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Attachment reflection prompt
Ren
Risk change
Stable
No change. Stable.
Carry forward
Map the activation sequence
Explore readiness for couples work
Normalize the protest as a bid
Reflections that came back
“I assume distance means rejection. Naming it made it less automatic.”
SharedJun 26
From the relational timeline
Jun 24
Session 4 · Individual
Attachment history. Mapped anxious activation in past relationships. Exploring readiness for couples work.
Jun 26
Ren reflected
“I assume distance means rejection. Naming that pattern made it less automatic.”